It’s been nearly a year since COVID-19 prompted a shift to virtual learning for most schools. Now, as many students are preparing to return to the classroom, they may have some questions and concerns. We understand that you may too!
If you’re preparing to send kids back to school after months at home, the following tips may be helpful for the whole family.
Keeping COVID-19 at bay is as important as ever. An easy way to remember the key prevention measures is with the 5Ws.
Kids may benefit from practice wearing their mask, working their way up to the length of a full school day. It’s also a good idea to help them visualize the distance they’ll need to keep from classmates and teachers. Maybe it’s the length of the living room sofa or of their bed. Or, you can use a tape measure and two stuffed animals to give some perspective.
Plan to pack a back-up mask and hand sanitizer in your child’s backpack to use as needed.
Routines may have shifted a bit during virtual learning. Perhaps bedtimes were a bit later and mornings more relaxed. If this is the case in your home, gradually work to get everyone back on a “normal” school schedule. Allow time for packing lunches and snacks, checking for homework, selecting a mask and other tasks that weren’t on the radar during virtual learning. The more prepared and relaxed everyone feels, the better!
Speaking of routines, a daily health check is an important part of the morning schedule when kids are going to school in person. Look for signs of illness, such as a temperature of 100.4 degrees or higher, sore throat, cough, body aches, severe headache, diarrhea or vomiting. If your child is experiencing any of these symptoms, they should not go to school.
There’s likely to be some peer pressure related to COVID-19 guidelines. Whether on purpose or simply because they’re not used to the different school environments, there will be kids who don’t wear their masks properly or follow the social distancing parameters. Remind your kids that the rules are in place for everyone’s safety and review how to handle pressure from their peers – addressing it assertively or alerting an adult. Be sure to emphasize and model these healthy behaviors when your family is out in the community as well.
The pandemic has led to plenty of uncertainty and anxious moments. Even kids who are excited to get back into the school building may have some anxiety about doing it for the first time in a long time, and what changes to expect. Parents and caregivers may have their own triggers for worry.
Find ways to relax – maybe a brisk walk or intentional mindfulness. This will help get you in the right frame of mind to help your child. Keep the lines of communication open. Encourage your child to voice their feelings and validate what they say. Sticking with the routine as much as possible – including getting plenty of sleep – is helpful too. Dr. Bela Sood, child and adolescent psychiatrist, offers some additional tips for handling anxiety.
Teachers and school counselors will have a unique perspective on how individual kids are handling the transition back to the school building. If you have concerns, check-in! They may have input on what your child needs and specific ideas for how to help. They’ll probably appreciate your collaboration too.
If your child has a chronic medical condition like diabetes, we recommend a quick check-in with the school nurse to make sure you have ample supplies on hand and an opportunity to ask any questions you might have.
Despite your best efforts, there may be unanticipated school closures or periods of quarantine when your child must stay home due to close contacts testing positive for COVID-19. It can be helpful to have a plan in place before this occurs. Are you able to work from home, take leave from work, or have another adult provide care for your child during that time?
While there’s a lot to think about and prepare for, going back to school marks an exciting milestone. Ask your child what they’re most looking forward to and share what you hope they’ll get to learn and do.